Hmmmmm! I'm just thinking and yeah its been a lot ! Wow!! I survived all those cycles of heartbreaks! I'm not just talking of my past love relationships, I'm also speaking of friendships(like friends of the same gender with me). I mean there were certain major events that influenced things, like my relocation to a different country in an entirely new continent(new home), there's also the recent passing of my dad( R.I.P), graduation from school and obviously I am now older which makes me see life true an entirely different lens. Everyone at some point has experienced setbacks, but what you do when you experience such is the deal breaker; I have learnt that how I confront these things are really important. Your pro-activeness is required in order to plan better and live a better life, I have also learnt that its always better to pick the people you want in your life. I used to feel its better to give people a chance to have your friendships and that be
It was June 15 2007, during my high school graduation ceremony. For a lot of people it was a job well done after intense efforts, but as for me I just could not care less. While everyone was laughing, talking, looking excited, taking beautiful photos, all I could think of was, ‘good for them’. I honestly could not wait to get out and I mean for good.I just kept waiting for the ceremony to be over. I saw it as an over rated ceremony where the school chancellor comes and talk and talk. Everyone to me who climbed the podium just blabbed and then blabbed some more, I’m sure you can already tell I could not wait to go home. Don’t blame me, high school experience for me was not the best; No more being known as that black(back then there was no #melaninpopping), ugly, dirty girl people used to laugh at. In high school, I wasn't the kind of girl who gets attention from fellow girls not to talk of guys, but over time I had learnt to deal with it. I had crushes on guys like a teenager w