Love Genesis

Hmmmmm! 

I'm just thinking and yeah its been a lot !

Wow!! I  survived all those cycles of heartbreaks!

I'm not just talking of my past love relationships, I'm also speaking of friendships(like friends of the same gender with me). I mean there were certain major events that influenced things, like my relocation to a different country in an entirely new continent(new home), there's also the recent passing of my dad( R.I.P), graduation from school and obviously I am now older which makes me see life true an entirely different lens. 

Everyone at some point has experienced setbacks, but what you do when you experience such is the deal breaker; I have learnt that how I confront these things are really important. Your pro-activeness is  required in order to plan better and live a better life, I have also learnt that its always better to pick the people you want in your life. I used to feel its better to give people a chance to have your friendships and that being picky about who, is some form of discrimination. 

Wow!! let me just say that that was a huge mistake!!!!!

I have since learnt that when you don't choose who you let in to your life or circles, people can come in and a make a huge mess. Sometimes it's not even because they want to, but because they are carrying their own baggage and need thorough life cleaning, and since they don't have that, they stain your life with problems.

Have you noticed that people with true prosperity and wealth have friends with like minds. E.g Bill Gates and Warren Buffet, etc. Prosperity comes with having like minds, people that have alike positive mindset. These people do not focus on drama, cat-fights, or dwell on gossips. They definitely do not engage in derogatory behaviors that are consistent in bringing people down. They uplift, build up personalities and have their quiet times to figure out ways to accomplish their dreams. From my experience, it is better to plan your life and by plan i mean everything including friendships. 

As a christian , I truly believe in the ability to call things forth, because we have all been given the ability to frame our worlds by choose the life we want to leave as well. But at the end of the day, it's left to you to decide which kind of life you want to leave and the people you want to spend it with? And if you do not know its best to ask God our creator for help, I mean he made thew whole world and everything in it.